Camping is an absolute joy when done right. Though, after my recent experience with friends, I can also tell you that it can be incredibly fun even when done wrong.
1) You only really need to plan on one major activity. The rest can be sourced from your surroundings such as hiking, spelunking, bird-watching, bug-hunting, campfire-building, sunshine-napping, etc.
2) Trusting in your group will save you so many headaches. If everyone shows up to shoulder the burdens and logistics together, the trip’s value can be shared by all, equally. Including any difficult conversations that might arise, when your friends are gathered around to support you.
3) Even if half the group has no clue as to what the plan is, having no plan can be stress-relieving in itself. Driving into the fog-filled morning in search of noms and adventure has just as much potential to offer life-changing opportunities as a carefully planned trip with all restroom breaks and scenic overlooks accounted for.
Give yourself room to be messy, to make mistakes. Focus your energy on being present with those around you, and watch the organic opportunities unfold. There is a balance between the responsibilities, for sure. But as long as your community communication is sound, you can experience some awesome unexpected things.
Days under the crystal blue skies
Nights under the canopy of leaves
Elements of earth and air and fire
The human experience unshackled and lived
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